Since February is filled with valentines and love, I can't help but reminisce
about my first crush, which was also responsible for my first motorcycling
experience. Unfortunately, I have to say the whole fiasco was anything
but love.
Ron was a bad-boy. Though I was only 12 years old at the time, I, like
countless women in history, thought I could tame him. (I may have been
young, but I was ambitious.) Ron was the only 13-year-old around that
had his own mini-bike. Even at my tender age, I had figured out the way
to win over an older rogue like him was to make a big fuss over his "bike".
One day I mustered up enough courage to walk over to him and ask if I
could have a ride. He eyed me coolly trying to determine my worthiness
and finally said, "hop on" in a voice creaking from the masculinity
that I just knew was bursting forth inside him. I couldn't wait for my
ride to paradise.
Paradise turned to hell within the first few seconds. I learned two very
valuable lessons that day: The first one is that even with a 12 year old
body, there isn't much room for a woman's backside on a mini-bike seat
and trying to look cool just can't happen when parts of you are hanging
off everywhere.
The second lesson was the world's fastest education in the obvious regarding
the mechanics of a mini-bike. I learned that mufflers are hot - really,
really hot! In an effort to look alluring, I had foolishly worn shorts.
Given the size of the bike vs. the length of my long gangly legs, my calf
had no where to rest but precisely on the exhaust pipe. Not wanting to
appear ignorant or a sissy, I said nothing as my leg roasted on the muffler.
I am sure he was filled with pride as he mistook my death grip on his
waist as true love instead of the grip of agony.
I did manage to make it to the end of the ride, which I think only was
for about a mile or so but it felt like eternity as my leg was thoroughly
bar-be-queued. I did however manage to keep my dignity long enough to
give him a quick "thank you" and wait until he got out of sight
before I limped home. There was no way I could go home and confess that
I had been out gallivanting with the riff-raff, so I had to tend to my
wounds myself, keeping the evidence of my sins painfully hidden under
long pant legs in the hot Georgia summer. It took weeks for the raging
red circle to heal.
The scar stayed with me for more than 20 years as I swore I would never,
ever, never ride one of those dangerous machines again. And then along
came Kent. He spent hours trying to convince me of the joys of riding
but I was not going to fall for that trick again. Ron may have lured me
over in the past, but I had the scar to remind me of the evils of riding.
Now all I had to do was figure out how to convince Kent of the perils
of riding and lure him away from this terrible habit.
Just when I thought I had it all figured out - along came a trip to Skyline
Drive. It was a beautiful spring morning. The air was so crisp and clean.
He asked me very gently one more time if I would like short ride just
down to the bottom of the hill. I looked down toward the scar on my leg
and then I made the mistake of looking up into his smiling face. His was
so eager and happy at the thought of me possibly saying "yes",
there was no way I could resist him. I sighed and hopped on the back of
Sportster. Kent was careful to barely go beyond coasting speed. But as
the wind started to rush past my cheeks and I had this incredible inexplicable
sense of freedom. Something unlike anything I had ever felt before in
my life. Much to his surprise I leaned forward and said in his ear, "Can
we go a little further?" - and we haven't stopped since.
One of our readers responded with her own story. I thought you would
like to read it as well.
Janet's Story
Michelle,
I really enjoyed your article this week -- love hurt--. Just shows
how far we can come! I got the fear of riding dirt bikes when my brother
took me for a ride when I was about 15. You know the kind of bike ...
fender about two feet higher than the front tire, that loud yingyingyingying
sound.....no place to put your feet as a passenger. Well, he literally
flew and since I was the "cool" older sister, I couldn't bring
myself to put my arms around him to hold on. Definately the scariest
ride of my life.
Harley's on the other hand, never bothered me. I rode with people,
then on my own after I became the proud owner of a '56 panhead. Ended
up crashing and burning with the panhead in 1981, then lost it in a
divorce. Figured I"d never ride again.
Then I met John --- he was my high school sweetheart and I hadn't seen
him in almost 20 years. Yes, we rode all summer long, and got married
in October. It was wonderful. Then last weekend, the weather warmed
up, the mud was gooey and John said "let's take out the dirt bikes".
Fear shot thorough me. After planning NEVER to ride my own bike again,
I had conveniently forgotten everything I knew about solo riding. And
a dirt bike to boot -- I definately vowed never to even get on one of
those things again. I know I was sweating profusly. Scared to death
I'd lay the bike down again, but I RODE!!!!!!!!!!
Somewhere down the holler, the bike quit, and try as I could, I couldn't
seem to get it kick-started again. John rode up on his bike (yep, one
of those big ones with the fender two feet over the front wheel). Stopped
and tried to help me. Here we are, in the middle of a dirt road. As
he kick started it, I was still on the seat, then...........my hand
on the clutch or his/my hand on the gas or his? Who knows, the bike
jolted out from under me, knocking him one way an me the other. There
I was (big fear come true) lying on the roadside. But I was LAUGHING!!
Didn't get hurt. The fear had just paralized me for so many years and
I guess I needed that little fall to keep me from dwelling on it again.
John has an old Triumph on the front porch (I call it my War Pony).
He says we'll fix it up for me to ride if I get my nerve back. I'm well
on my way. That ride last weekend made me just want MORE!
Oh, and another thing.......my dirt bike quit running entirely last
weekend John had to double me on his dirt bike to go back for the truck
( a few miles). He went slow and easy (just like you described Kent
doing with you). He was so careful not to scare me. I think there's
a little of that fear still left in me, but I've finally gotten my hands
on the throttle once more.
Looking forward to meeting you and Kent one of these days.