A few months back I wrote a short tip on how to be a good copilot.
In fairness to those who faithfully co-pilot for us it's time for a tip
on being a good frontseater. If you primarily ride alone then you may
not know what I'm talking about, and those that ride with you are simply
passengers. It's not the same thing. A passenger may or may not know anything
about riding, and like as not a trip with you is an occasional thing at
best. A backseater, however, is someone that loves riding as much as you
do but chooses for one reason or another not to own their own bike. They
have chosen to ride with you instead.
Being a good frontseater is all about being considerate. That means despite
having your head lost in the feel of the wind and the sound of the soft
rumble of the engine you remember there's another person back there, and
it starts before you ever mount up. Your backseater needs to be as well
equipped to ride as you are.
In most states a helmet is required for both operator and passenger.
A happy back seater will have their own helmet that fits properly - not
a "one size fits all" spare helmet you keep for the occasional
passenger. This is probably the most important gear item you'll have because
to be comfortable a helmet has to fit right. If it doesn't, it will pinch,
flop around, and generally be a nuisance or even painful. To a lesser
extent the same goes for gloves, jacket, boots, and other riding gear,
but the helmet is the most important. Don't go cheap on the purchases
just because the person is the passenger - you won't have a backseater
if you do.
Once your backseater is equipped and mounted up it's up to you to assure
their safety when you ride. Your bike will handle much differently riding
double than it does when it's just you. Braking, turning, and acceleration
are all impacted and in general it will take a more time and effort on
your part to make things happen when they should happen. Keep it always
in mind, and take things a little easier than you do when you're riding
by yourself. Your backseater needs to have confidence in your abilities
and they need to know that you're not going to act out in a way that puts
you both in danger. That doesn't mean you can't twist the wick a bit when
appropriate, but scaring a passenger is a sure way to lose a potential
backseater.
A good day's mileage for you is probably too much for your backseater.
Most motorcycles are designed more for operator comfort than for passenger
comfort so you'll need to stop for breaks more often than when you're
riding alone. You may also be ending your ride earlier than you would
otherwise, because they are worn out. Don't make your passenger feel like
a wimp because you have to stop. You'll never have a backseater if you
do.
Just being sensitive and considerate frontseater will go a long ways
towards having a good ride with more goods rides to come. A bigger step
though comes when it's time to replace the old horse (your BIKE) with
a new one. Take your backseater with you and have them check out the real
estate you're proposing they occupy. You'll probably find their interest
in the new bike is directly proportional to the size of its pillion (as
will be their desire to ride with you). A raked front end with a little
queen seat on the back may look cool, but if you want your backseater
with you give em something comfortable to sit on.
Lastly, remember that your backseater is your partner on the road. A
passenger is just along for the ride, but a backseater is part of a team.
Treat them as such and you'll both have many happy miles ahead of you.